Recognizing Safe Boundaries, Part 1
Are you suffering from abuse? Have you prayed for God to take you out of a certain situation, or to help you work through a relationship with someone? Have you asked God to show you the way out – or even remove that person from your life?
When prayers are answered they sometimes do not come in the package that we expect. For example if there is someone in your life that you feel you can not get away from, they keep bullying you, and you keep asking God for help ~ recognize the pattern. The help you seek may be from within. It may require you to take some action to get yourself out of the situation. That may be the answer to your prayer.
The ability to recognize safe boundaries with others is one aspect of the answer to your prayer. SPIRIT / God is helping you to recognize that the relationship is toxic and that action is required. Educate yourself on how to get the help you need, and make some educated decisions.
If you need more help ask God / SPIRIT to deliver the answer where you can see it. For me I often hear a word or words in my head. I go to the computer and type the word into the search engine. More often that not a site with the answer to my question comes up in the top 10. Other times I come across a random person in a line at a store and overhear a reference of a book or video that can provide an answer. Today a woman in my office building told me of a place I could obtain an object I needed for little money. I checked it out and sure enough – it was the perfect place to get what I needed for the price I required. The only requirement was that I asked.
A little story to help you recognize safe boundaries:
One day a frog was swimming back and forth across a small body of water. A scorpion sat on the edge of the river bank desiring to get to the other side and watched the frog swimming effortlessly back and forth. After a few moments the scorpion approached the frog when it landed on the river bank. “Frog,” said the scorpion, “I desire to go to the other side of the river, and it will take too long for me to wait for the river to dry up so that I can get to the other side. Will you let me get onto your back when you go across the next time?”
The frog considered the scorpions request. “Scorpion,” said Frog, “You are a scorpion and you have a poisonous sting at the end of your tail, and if I let you onto my back I risk you stinging me.” The scorpion wanting desperately to get to the other side replied, “Frog, you are correct, I do have a poisonous sting that could kill you, but if you take me to the other side I promise that I will not sting you while you take me to the other side.”
The frog considered the promise. He decided that the scorpion would keep his word, so he allowed the scorpion to climb onto his back and took him across the water. Once the scorpion was safely on the river bank on the other side he stung the frog. Surprised the frog lay dying on the bank, “Scorpion, why did you sting me – you promised that you would not.” “I kept my word,” replied the scorpion, “I did not sing you while you took me to the other side, but once we got on shore I did what was in my nature – I stung you.”
Boundary lesson: Recognize that boundaries are healthy and they can keep you from getting stung. If there is someone in your life who is abusive – draw the boundary and recognize that their behavior is likely to remain the same – no matter what they say to you out loud.
I encourage you to make wise choices, and stay safe.
Today take a few moments to focus on your breath. Think about creating a loving Divine space where you live or work. Invite SPIRIT to be a part of it. If you are having a challenge transforming your space to a peaceful vibration, I am available to assist you. You may book a time by clicking on the book online link below.
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