| Today I have a sobering question to ask you . . . are you living the life that you want to live . . . or the one that you have to? Over the years I have seen so many women, from clients to close friends that hesitate to follow their dreams, whether it is a major life change or a shift in how money is earned. Even independent women wait for approval to take bold steps forward they know deep inside their soul that they want to take. This tendency to seek permission from others, or even ourselves, can leave us feeling stuck and unfulfilled. What is the reason for living the life that they feel they have to? Why can’t you just shake loose from feeling stuck and make the decision that can align you with the vibrational frequency of fulfillment, of living the life that you want to? One of those reason is called generational trauma. Ouch! One of my clients of many years reached out to me today because she was feeling like everyone in her life was drawn to her because they required healing, and she was feeling pretty drained. I listened to her as she poured out her heart about the endless number of hours that she had listened to a close friend as she word vomited, and how she had spent many years trying to please her father who repeatedly made her feel like she was walking on eggshells, and then her nephew who needed to be rescued from endless bad money management. She was exhausted and reached out to me thinking that it was a bad case of karma, and nothing could be further from the truth. You see without knowing it she needed permission to feel needed by her friend, she spent countless years of her life trying to be good enough for her father’s approval, and now she was seeking acceptance from her nephew. She felt stuck. I assured her it wasn’t karma. She was living the life that she felt she had to. The one that her subconscious told her she had to live. She had absorbed the vibrational frequency of the generational trauma. And it didn’t have to be this way. We looked at each of the situations that had her feeling stuck. It was amazing to see her eyes light up and her energy shift as she realized that she wasn’t paying karmic debt, and that she could simply move forward by adopting a few simple changes in her life. The clues to transform her life were being revealed to her through her relationships. Her beliefs, perceptions, and judgements about who she was and how she had allowed others to tell her who she was changed everything. I gave her a few simple steps to begin releasing her limiting beliefs, and I gave her permission (she actually didn’t need that from me) to live the life she wanted . . .free from trauma. I want you to think about your limiting beliefs, are they value systems that came from your family. Have you too been mistaking it for karma? Remember you can change this, you can release feeling of being stuck and live the beautiful life that you have always wanted to. Hugs, Deanna |
Are you Living the Live that you want to . . . or the one that you have to?
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- Are you Living the Live that you want to . . . or the one that you have to?
